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Thursday, April 26, 2018

Hope for the man or woman caught in "sexual impurity".....education needs repair.


Now we could point AT others..... or we can point TO Christ.

Rev_17:5  And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.

I choose to point TO Christ...... the culture is obviously catering TO the sin of man....thinking that "God's laws" are corrupt....but the bible says that the law is GOOD if used lawfully.

1Ti_1:8  But we know that the law is good, if a man use it lawfully;

A person needs to be honest.....what are your children learning today?  Are they learning to ENJOY God's creation or are they learning to go "against nature"......  The obvious result is confusion and addiction.  This even encroaches into the realms of the people who believe that they are "well educated."  The mind of people may be "educated" but they have NOT dealt with the reality that SIN is SIN......and it quite simply....breaks....God's..... heart.

Because the "state" controls the minds of the youth.  Dignity is lost.  Sexuality is embraced as an ultimate "lifestyle" rather than a means to share love in a "lawful" way.

Christians would need to set up shelters to get the youth, AND people up to age 35 or so OUT of this culture of embracing "sexual impurity"!  Yes.  it would take nearly twice as long to get the culture of the institutional school system OUT of the child, in order for the child to embrace life to the fullest potential.  It may even take GENERATIONS to get these things out of a person's system (slavery for example still approaches upon the minds of people)  We are all SHEEP, and we NEED his redemption in order to FIND such dignity!

Now imagine, if the child was abused by a professional within the school!  Some school systems "teach" the teachers to "stop doing that," but in reality the likely-hood that something "fishy" could go on, especially if students are NOT given dress codes and codes of conduct, only increases.  All in all, SHELTERS would be needed to get the "school system" out of the children......even way past their educational years!

For example...... Tamar of the Bible was RAPED.......Joseph of the Bible was FALSELY ACCUSED......the secular culture simply DOESN'T use the BIBLE........for their GUIDE.....so they end up with problems for the "Tamar's" and the "Joseph's" in our modern era.

The specific house for hope and healing could be called: Tamar's House

For those affected by:
-sex-trafficking
-impure relationships
-rape
-unwanted same-sex relationships
-unwanted same-sex attractions
-Molestation
-Domestic Violence (this would not be a specific Domestic Violence shelter for immediate safety but it can accommodate those who have faced such situations)
-Incest issues
-Challening pregnancies (including those within a healthy relationship)
-Infidelity
-online-inappropriate-interactions
-Former-convictions-accusations
-professional misconduct (schools, doctors offices etc)
-unnatural prescription pregnancy-prevention abuse (woman's health)
-violence or family abandonment due to a relationship
-prostitution life-styles (including dorm-room environments)
-aquireing an STD
-Pornographic images
-Poor body image
-Patterns of sex-addiction
-Forced marriages (culture based and non-culture based)
-Underage pregnancy (assuming a woman is not capable of taking herself to a doctor and does not want the pregnancy)
-Underage marriage (pregnancy and burden of family is too difficult to bear).  Can include anyone underage 35 years of age.
-Sex-workers escape (working as a stripper and other careers based upon body image)
-The opposite of addiction and oppression is appreciation and connection
-Rape-culture-religions
-Women affected by FGM
-race/ethnicity based prejudices or abuse (middle east men are too patriarchal which leads to the bad stuff, boarding school era, Holocaust etc)
-past abortion practices

Goal: Embrace in LOVE not in perversion.....

What it offers:

1. Offer meals
2. Offer reading materials
3. Offer arts and crafts
4. Offer hobbies and ideas
5. Products to help
6. Products to create that help fund the home
7. Bible based counsel and studies.  (include regular studies in God's laws, so a person knows how to id. sexual impurity practices)
8. Free internet is ONLY available for those who have proven they have overcome their battles.
9. Music and entertainment resources would NOT encourage anything "sexual impurity" related.  Even "christian movies" that display "kissing" would not be allowed until full recovery.
10. Resources that show places they may SERVE OTHERS.  Seeing needs in others can help overcome the personal burdens.

Who can come:

1. Anyone who is affected by this and would like a support person to talk to for a while.
2. Anyone who would like to stay for about a week
3. Anyone who would like to stay for up-to 6 months.  (Job accommodations will be necessary).  Low-one-room-rent fee.
4. Person's with children will need to home-educate.  Educational tools will be given for children in grades 5th through 8th grade.
5. Anyone who would like to stay for up-to-three months (Job accommodations can be made through the home, but consider appropriate jobs that keep a person from the patterns of addictions)
6. An individual may leave once they know they are able to overcome the battles they have faced.
7. Person's with past criminal records related to sexuality-related crimes may stay but will need to have a separate accommodation away from vulnerable people such as children.
8. Males and Females will eat separate.  There will be an option of eating together sometimes.
9. Anyone who is willing to do work within the house (cooking, cleaning, keeping one's temperament under control etc)
10. Anyone who is willing to go through bible-studies.  Anyone who is willing to attend a supporting church fellowship group.
11. Anyone who recognizes that we ARE social creatures and we NEED each other for support and encouragement to keep ourselves free from sin.
12. Any one under the age of 20, will need a parental permission to attend long-term.  Those under age 20 will need parents to pay for housing and therapy.  Adults can do their own self-therapy more readily.
13. Those under age 20 can come for meals and other events in the home and remain in their own home to learn how to more appropriately socialize WITHOUT catering to "sexual impurity" practices.

*People currently in a relationship may NOT come for an extended stay, but may come for a bible study and/or counselling session.  The goal is to encourage people to flee from "sexual impurity" and teach others how to do that.

*People who are resistant to biblical teachings, therapy or have major behavior issues will not be able to use this home for the time.  The reason is because other individuals who need the therapy could be at risk due to lack of self-control.

The obscene culture that is PUSHED on children is the same as a sex-trafficker agenda....because it is law-less.  Such a home could be for anyone of any age, but more focus towards those 35 years of age and younger.  Similar to this home.


For those who don't have a "special support home" near by..... www.settingcaptivesfree.com could help

In the meantime....the goal is that BROTHERS can "hang-out" and not feel as if they have done something wrong to another or someone else is hurting them....


King David had some good things and bad things that happened in his life and in his family life...

Never the less..... He danced!


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