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Thursday, July 19, 2018

Something that needs to be said.....to prevent purposeful hatred....towards "middle east"...

I don't want to describe too many details about the domestic environment I grew up within among my extended family, but I do want to say that it is not right to call a "brown skin" or middle eastern man a "rape-u-gee," "male chauvinist," "nasty polygamist," or "in breeders (cousin marriages)," and also the opposite, to call a family or individual with "brown skin" in the family an "islamophobic" if they feel certain elements or conditions practiced by extremists are deemed threatening to the family or other sorts of things.  Doing so, is a way to purposefully try to dismantle his (and his extended family) conditions and the conditions that the creator gave to that man (masculine characteristics).  In essence, it is a sort of -false accusation- or -defamation of character-....



Humanity constantly thinks it is stronger than what it truly happens to be, but our hearts can only handle a certain amount.  We can only truly trust in -BROTHERLY LOVE- as a guiding force in a world of constant confusion.....and error......and hatred.....



Behind every person is a "family" that supports him or her in trials and errors.......  Some people are stronger and more talented than others........other family is more humble and wise than others....... it all depends on knowledge, circumstance and willingness to go through the BATTLE......many of us face, even if it is invisible.




Outward appearance of the individual may not be the "whole story" of the person.  Anyone can simply sing in a choir.  Family history has stories of suffering, persecution, hatred, scorn, elimination, rejection..........some people who are alive TODAY have family that went through the Holocaust!  (My husband has worked with residents in nursing home who went through a concentration camp........of which I know I would never survive such conditions.....)

Yeshua.....Jesus is STILL a Jewish (middle eastern) man up in heavenly realms..... think beyond -this earth- when it comes to trials and sufferings.




We have one hope and it is the saviour who redeems and heals us.








Psa_18:27  For thou wilt save the afflicted people; but wilt bring down high looks.


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Tuesday, July 17, 2018

Who are the most vulnerable people?

I have not personally studied a lot of sociology, but I can say by experience, by observations, and by reading about different conditions, these cases are more than likely true among most of humanity.

A person is a person at conception.  Maybe that person is not liked by the woman or social system because of some possible "appearance" or condition that the person-to-develop may have. (ie. the condition of being a minority isn't liked by someone)

A child in the womb at 20 weeks to one week of age after birth.....

A disabled child in the womb (mother may be under pressure to do damage to the unborn child)

Children with disability

The poor elderly, especially widows, particuarly the homeless

The poor elderly, especially widows, in bad environmental conditions

The poor elderly, especially widows, in poor social conditions (no church group, no friends, no hobby, no family etc)

The poor disabled (temporary pregnancy conditions for some pregnancies)

The poor single parent family with children under the age of 5

Persons in domestic violence conditions, especially if lack of resources and people to help are available

People who speak up for others or differing beliefs in dangerous conditions (like Martin Luther King Jr.)

*Minority/immigrant/religiously different/different political opinion conditions added on to any of the above....even worse in severe oppression or persecution areas.

*Homeless conditions adds to the strain


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"Rapugee classes"......targets people of certain nationalities???

Here is the thing to consider, certain religious beliefs forbid certain behaviors......this has been that way since ancient days.

And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst, They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou? This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground. And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst. When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
(Joh 8:3-11)


(When a woman commits an act of adultery by the way, in essence she could be hurting another woman......like a husband with children and tearing apart a family)


Minority groups that prize dignity for women, know to protect women from anything with "sexual impurity" written all over it.  They willingly put an end to things like "sex trafficking."

Even white supremacist men have practiced "rapugee" practices upon minority in the USA, so NO nationality is free from these things and elements.

The issue as a whole is VALUE.  How in the world to teach an immigrant to VALUE another human being?



Yes, it would be nice to just "hang out" with people of different nationality, but if the HaTE/LOVE cycle is there and bully effect is going on, then someone is going to get hurt.


All in all, check with the VALUE conditions before touching another person is the key thing.  Professional healthcare workers and other people who work with vulnerable people have rules, so the "immigrant" also has certain rules to apply else the most vulnerable get hurt.

By the way, refugee children HAVE been hurt by the country they move into in this way (from middle-east to western society).  A certain man that proposed to the male children to do certain "acts," is ALSO a type of man that does not value humanity......so it can and does go both ways.

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Maybe a hospital, public health center, or special immigrant center could have a class that covers these types of topics:

Value fellow humanity class:

Diversity brings interesting and new 

persepctives to humanity, but diversity can 

also kill humanity and devalue the human life.

Bible verse that explains why "toxic sexuality" doesn't bring about the best in humanity and also causes unrest in judgment in humanity (yes, there are other examples in scripture and elsewhere).  Jesus specifically said at the end "sin no more.":

And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst, They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou? This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground. And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst. When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
(Joh 8:3-11)


- religious values to the extreme can and does happen to ANY religious value, but some seem and show more effects of this without thinking of others.

-Look at a Holy Bible for an example.  Some in 

the bible had issues with lacking self-

control, and some did not.  Sodom and Gomorrah 

is a very common example of men who did not 

have sense of self-control.

-Nationality does not determine who gets the 

prize for having the least amounts of rape 

cases.  Rather it is based on environment, 

teaching, in some cases religious values, and 

self-control.

-What type of woman can a man touch and not 

touch?

-What type of man can a woman touch and not 

touch?

-Other cases......age, religious beliefs vs. 

political ideas, completely different 

cultures....Open marriage is the norm?  

Polygyny isn't always the bad guy?  Incest and 

cousin marriage creates what?

-Dangerous sex-trafficking violators.

-False accusers: Joseph and Potiphar of the 

bible

-Attraction is not an evil force and does not 

permit touching.  Modesty is not a man-made 

thing and does not permit hating religious 

values.

-Children: modesty vs. sexulized 

children.....dignity builds the value

-gossip, scorn, division, hatred, racism etc. 

are all negative forces which create toxic 

environments.  STAY AWAY from "rape gangs" at 

all times.  If you or a friend you know is a 

part of one, leave it immediately and never 

return to it.


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Monday, July 16, 2018

Anti-White discrimination: The brown - white family members effect......


Here is a brown dude......who can sing....I can read his name too.  I have nothing against the "culture" of middle east....because it is like a preserved element of the Gospel.





So if family members from "Norway" walk around with family members from the "Levant"........which is the case for my family........well some times we live among each other........and we don't even realize we are related to each other.......that closely.   Yeup, I pick up on the "Palestinian" nature of a MAN, in my community, due to the aftershock of being nurtured around such family conditions.

Strangely enough the "white family" within the 2nd cousin range are the ones with Jewish heritage....(which is what the terror religious values don't like.....but yet some members have DNA Jewish heritage.......)

And white family members have something that looks kinda Charlie Puth but a few generations or so in........makes them look very white, with very little Jewish looking appearance.....just general good looks.....and they even eat pork and don't know Jewish language.




Brown, white, red and even african american........seems to come and go within the generations.......

Red-people......get profiles like the Jewish people sometimes, but they can and do remember the "boarding school era" and how the culture was lost......so education becomes defective, instead of effective unless used appropriately.......to keep family environment's safe.

Norwegian-Jewish combination (Josh Groban)......looks like my husband with Norwegian-Native American combination.......




The important thing is this......KEEP people safe.......recognize the nasty effects of just "outward judging" of people.

Terrorism is bad, as is profiling and attacking based on DNA heritage......even within family........extended family included.


Some people get so used to assuming.....things.....they don't see the culture element in humanity, the culture element remains:




Culture elements continued:



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What does the colorful flag really mean???



Some people fly this flag with "pride"...... but God says that the Pride of "Sodom and Gomorah" was bad, and the results were death, misery and suffering.  I observe some of the stuff that goes on in Hollywood, per say.  I listen to their "interviews" with "rolling stone" magazine, and I see the pattern over and over again.  Every time they talk this way and promote something that really isn't godly, they are acting like they "care" about these people or some certain type of people, but the reality is that each person is going through one of these phases as listed on the flag.

Even something as blatantly lamentable as acting as a "Potiphar's wife" when false accusing a "Joseph with the coat of many colors," has its fruits in unrighteous living.

Essentially, going against Nature, which God created, does not, I repeat, does NOT lift up a person's burdens.  Going against NATURE is like trying to force the air to stop existing so that people cannot breathe, or trying to dirty the water so people cannot drink it.  Why create more burden than its worth?  All the effort to break apart, that which he already repaired??

???What about????

Infidelity
Rape
Domestic Violence
Racism
Hatred for disability
Family or community hatred
Alone, USED, False Accusation
Trafficking
Incest
Molestation
Stalking
Political uprisings and violence
STD's
****The list goes on****

These things affect ALL people, fit to be "consumed"...... the enemy wants people to consume themselves in HATE, instead of in REDEMPTION

A person does not need to be identified with those crowds, groups, ungodly behaviors, his identity is for all....

--*** Lay Down your life.....as you are ***--

He offers....hope, healing, brotherly and sisterly love, rest, empathy, kindness, joy, everlasting love, purity, long suffering, power, forgiveness......the list goes on......but a person MUST trust in HIM







If you FIND HIM.......by reading the word.......and meditating on the word......and find fellowship with those who want you to find your hope in HIM, instead of trying to measure up according to what a person can do or what a person can support in the private quarters or as far as a marriage or relationship identity is concerned, you can find the one who wants to help you to measure up to the conditions, he knows he can use, to restore the conditions of this earth......

Our hearts need Holiness, Righteousness, Godliness, Redemption.......Daily, Hourly, Every Minute...........Every millionth of a second.


Just because this and that.....is written in "theory" doesn't mean that it is law......(God's laws are ......law)....

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Friday, July 13, 2018

When is a Christian "homophobic" and when are they NOT "homophobic"??

Ok, so the colleges love to draw in the crowds and gain a lot of supporters through aggressive teachings on eliminating "homophobia."  Even some colleges which claim to be Christian colleges may cater to this agenda.  The unfortunate thing is that they are NOT explaining that people who practice "sexual impurity," or that which is against God's laws, can also show forth symptoms of violence!  They may also commit acts of antisemitism (another form of breaking God's laws....Nero was a law-breaker).  King David is a good example of this effect.  He -lusted-.  He -committed adultery-  Then he used violent force against another man to commit the act of -murder-.  Psalm 51 exemplifies this heart feeling in his act.  So in essence, he was a "law breaker."  People who practice sodomy are ALSO "law breakers."

So in essence, does being a "law breaker" prevent you from committing other sins?  No, it only enhances and encourages the act.

Does David, being "a Jewish man," prevent him from committing sin?  No.

Here is the thing to consider, King David was a Moabite.  The Moabites came from the people of Lot.  Lot lived in Sodom and Gomorrah.  His heart was affected by the conditions of the city, well into the point of having children with his own biological daughters!  His children continued to have children.  The Moabites continued to create havoc and committed acts of antisemitism against Israel repeatedly.  Moab is mentioned 151 times in the scripture, with Moabites mentioned 18 times.  Balak was a prominent and frequently mentioned king from Moab, he was mentioned 40 times in the scripture. Balaam who worked in agreement with Balak was mentioned 63 times!  So the conditions of Moab are mentioned quite frequently in the scripture as well as the prominent leaders and influencers: Balaam and Balak.

Considering that Jewish people were led by the "king of the Jews", the son of David, and David himself came from Moab through Ruth and Boaz, there IS evidence that it is WRONG to commit a complete act of homophobia, but to consider the after shock of being frequently around people who aggressively practice "sexual impurity."  Because Lot was around the conditions of "sexual impurity" it took MANY generations to remove the influences of that.  Ruth, the Moabite, NEEDED a redeemer to get away from the influences.

So when is a Christian "homophobic"? (Note: that some Christian bible believers have only the bare-minimum knowledge of their faith, and may not consider multiple factors)  It could be any, or more than one of the following: 1. When they are fearful of brotherly love.  2. When they are attacking a boy/girl in the age of development and changes in the voice.  3. When they aggressively murder, insult or harass a person who is practicing sexual impurity (law-less acts), unless their life is physically in danger.  4. When they are attacking a person who was brought up in a sexual impurity environment or experienced some sort of sexual impurity in their lifetime. Molestation, sex trafficking, sexting, Child-abuse etc. 5. When they insult a man or woman who is doing things opposite the nature and culture of their gender, so long as it is not enticing sexual impurity.  (Like a woman studies math and science at a college) 6. When they call someone a homosexual for simply not wanting to "date" or get physically closer to a certain individual at a certain time of their life.  7. When they deny that someone like "Ruth" who was a descendant of Lot, needed a redeemer etc etc.  .... I do believe that Franklin Grahm is being "homophobic" when he assumes that JEsus would say things, when the reality of the conditions are not there in this article.

When is a person NOT "homophobic"?  It could be any, or more than one of the following: 1. When they are sharing bible verses that forbid the practice of sexual-impurity  2. When they show KJV or "strict sounding" bible verses condemning the practice of homosexuality or any other manner of sexual impurity  3. When they are "loving God's laws" and ways.  4. When they approve of God's acts of eliminating the evil people in Sodom and Gomorrah.  5. When they are telling people to quit "lusting" (Jesus said when a man looks at a woman with lust, he is an adulterer).  6. When they are not interested in going to a "same sex wedding" or any other celebration they consider to have issues relating to "sexual impurity."  7. When they are not interested in watching, reading, or learning about certain people who practice homosexuality.  8. When they are condemning people who frequently use the word "homophobic" for being a Conservative bible believer 9. When they don't agree with the relationship conditions for people in tribal groups who practice polygyny, polyamoury, swinging, or open marriage, especially if there is infidelity or child abandonment.  10. When they do not approve of the general "Sodom and Gomorah" lifestyle.  11. When they are in favor of Jesus' words when he said Capernea was worse than "Sodom and Gomorah" 12. When they are living in, living among, speaking to people who are either Muslim or in Muslim majority countries or other countries that forbid the practice of homosexuality 13. If they are speaking against "sexual violence" practiced among those who are practicing sexual impurity in any way like sex-trafficking etc etc.

A person is and still can be a conservative bible believer (yet not in favor of the conditions of Sodom and Gomorrah)  if they are around any of these conditions when they are 1. expected to care for the sick in an employment situation 2. Serving in any place of employment and the employer wants them to do something that is ok with sexual impurity lifestyle, like bake a cake (for example: Wal-mart).  3. They work at a place of employment with people who use the services and they practice sexual impurity (like a bank, library, bookstore, hair salon etc.) 4. When they work at a school and the school itself teaches in favor of sexual impurity lifestyle (the individual who is employed may NOT teach in favor if they are Christian, however, or it goes against scripture truth).  5. When they watch a "health care teaching" video that teaches things about how to take care of a man or women in child-bearing, conception or sexuality practices in general.  (for example a man with prostate cancer needs to know how to fix his condition) 6. Around a couple that gives a same-sex kiss, hug or loving gesture (Christians can actually practice the "holy kiss") 7. If they need to learn a basic skill or gain knowledge about something in general or neutral terms (music lessons, cooking skills, employment skills etc).  The teacher seems, identifies or supports sexual impurity practices.  8.  If they purchase items from a store and the owner supports or practices such lifestyles......

Keep in mind sexual-impurity is an "abomination" and it is against nature, so it is NOT a thing that God favors as better than other conditions (brotherly and sisterly love is the favored condition).  People are NOT "born that way" because sexuality practices are based on "choice".....but LOVE is eternal.  People who cannot "practice their sexuality," like disabled people are STILL in need of LOVE!  If a person HATES those who warn others, then the person who HATES has the problem.  God doesn't want people to live in favor of SIN, but simply in favor of his son who died for SIN, what ever way a person looks at it.


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Just for the exposure of the nature of "political correctness"



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Thursday, July 12, 2018

Our family has WW1 connections..... from BOTH sides of the family....

Once upon a time.....well this is real life, my children's great-grandmother's FATHER on my HUSBAND's side of the family was a WW1 veteran.

Occasionally great-great-grandmother (who still has her mind, emotions, and proper reasoning skills) will speak about the events that her FATHER went through.  Her own father survived living in trenches and the various diseases men would possibly accumulate due to war and famine at the time.

On my side of the family, I have cousins who have Armenia heritage and came away from the Genocide conditions and things of that sort.  How close were we growing up?  Not like "super close" but close enough to have an impact on the heart if something happens.  Enough impact that I can recognize the clear, distinct nature of people from the -Levant.- or other middle eastern cultures.  In reality the "law things" (first five books) from the bible are what seem to keep things in the right direction, family nature and discussion as far as many different things are concerned.  Domestic life if you will.  (For privacy reasons I will not tell their name on this blog).

I ask some people "around town" if they have this or that relative or in-law or something or other, and it turns out MANY "white people" do not really have such connections.  Having a WW1 veteran is common, but not always the other type of "tribal" connection.  Does this make my children "different" from others?  Maybe.  Political things are a blur.  I don't believe in using force against any one really, except in the case where the man (or woman) is CLEARLY a terrorist.  I know a family that CLEARLY has Palestinian ancestry and they know my children, and I know other Jewish folks around the communities.  What person out of the "levant" should I choose to "unlove" if you will?  That just DOESN'T make any sense to me......at all.

So my children have "first cousins once removed"....."second cousins this and that"......a great-grandmother who tells stories (and also went to Israel).......  out of ALL those people which ones should I tell my children to not love?

So I am literally "stuck" and "stuffed" with the reality that this is my connections, for my children.

Do we have WW2 connections (since I write about antisemitism from time to time)? Well, only by DNA test would I know who TRULY has Jewish ancestry among immediate family.  I won't mention the name on this blog either, but there IS someone within the 2nd cousin ....aunt, uncle, niece nephew range that has these conditions.  My children also have 5% minority DNA, so that would mean that Hitler and other "White supremacist" of that time-frame would find "fault" with their heritage and DNA conditions.  (The evils of institutional uprising is the evil - psalms 56:5-6.....not the "white skin" by the way).  Anyone from ANY DNA condition can go "low" in moral choices at any time by the way.

Sometimes Antisemitism and islamophobia get lumped together, because of the Heritage of the middle-east.  Which is understandable.  I don't think a "headscarf" determines a personhood of a person.  Or a skin tone, eye shape or other conditions.  Rather it is what comes from the HEART is what matters.  I don't personally agree with the "islamic" faith as it can be either SUPER lenient or SUPER strict for dangerous conditions, with an unchanged heart which needs to be revived to seeks to SERVE the LORD and SERVE humanity with LOVE.

So in essence, every time "Charlie Puth" goes to bed and wakes up each morning, he goes to bed with "Levant" history on his heart.  Every time he wakes up.....there it is again.  He has connections and heritage to "boot".....even today in modern internet era.  Essentially TAKE TIME for those you LOVE.  (I don't always know a Jewish person's religious choices or if a person is even Jewish at all..........)  So what does a person need to do?  OBEY his COMMANDMENTS......write them on your heart.  Simple as that and EVERY environment a person is put into will have an effect on the HEART (love/hate)......


The mystery of "DNA" and connections to humanity.....of course the rules from the history of humanity are not "outdated" especially the rules of love, joy, peace, patience self-control...... 




A story that shows how people try to mis-interpret and identify a person based on various circumstance and DNA situation: https://www.accidentaltalmudist.org/heroes-blog/alma-rose


Then there is the kinky "refugees" or those who are NOT really looking for a way to MAKE a great life for others, but just for self-driven gain, all in the name of "religious tollerance".  At 28:56 (the man is Balken by the way, not 100% Swedish, so he CAN understand the "kinky" people, and see through their act).....


*Personally, I do believe in respect and a certain type of tolerance that encourages people to come to hear the gospel.......

This is a pretty good book into the Muslim world......(which one really shouldn't fear if the person is a bible-believing Christian in any way.....)


Link Here

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