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Friday, January 19, 2018

-sexy- reasons to support God's laws......

There ARE reasons I wrote the following blog post....because if I would have made certain "encounters" when I was a child with different people I -love- but ummmmmm encountering them in the wrong way.....it jest would not turn out "sexy."  ????  Middle East and other types of family members etc.
I don't really need a supreme court to tell me this an that..... notice all the times "nakedness" mentioned in the KJV bible does just find....fine.
If I sound too -religious- and a big fan of -God's laws- (first five books of BIBLE) and not Sharia laws.......then so be it  Its a way to get rid of far-left weeds !!!!

Our body is a temple........really.....truly it is.

I support brotherly and sisterly love......cousins and siblings doing things GOD's way........ (some relatives are in fact lawless....so the bible says to -love- them...but perhaps they may need a little "shunning" if things are really bad)

If they are not relation (like close relative) to you....then I can't say what people do when they get this message in their inbox (אתה רוצה למצוץ לי את הזין) ..... the reason I ended up with this saying....hmmm well it may have something to do with cousins looking alike or something ....but I would NOT share that information with "my doctor"......only others I know are NOT "my doctor"  

Of course the far-left and far-right will drop me "off the cliff" for posts like these ;)

welll......ummmm ok.

PS..... I DO NOT support the stuff that goes on in "New Orleans"  all that creates is a Potiphar's wife (overuse of #metoo hashtag) and Joseph effect.....where men get pushed around for no reason.

Thursday, January 18, 2018

Does your school have "love" in it?

What I mean is are there signs that something isn't right about the way you (or someone you know) is educating their child?

It doesn't matter the type of educational method as I have heard of "abuse" in all types of environment.  I have heard of those who wish to use a certain type of education and they are denied because of persecution (www.voiceofthemartyrs.com or historical accounts during war or famine).  Yes, there have been situations of "many children" abused by LGBT activists and pedophiles who worked in public schools.  Yes, there have been "locked up children" in Private/Public schools even here in America if one studies BOARDING SCHOOL ERA.  So a person really cannot point at the type of school method, it is the type of HEART in the adult that is the issue.


This IS a disturbing case.  Especially considering that I have worked with vulnerable people before (disability camps and even tutoring or teachers helper and so forth).  Extreme fears are usually what create this effect.  Fearful of the "ungodly" in their OWN opinion rather than in what Jesus actually says, "Luke 16:9 And I say unto you, Make to yourselves friends of the mammon of unrighteousness; that, when ye fail, they may receive you into everlasting habitations."  Meaning, let the child explore their environment and experience their own self-confidence: Gordon Training

Do I support the "state" in coming into each home and requiring them to register how a family educates their child?  No.

Do I support the method of reporting a family that "under-nourishes" their child or lets their child wander around carrying guns in the streets all day?  Yes.  A family like this needs grant warrant for arrest.

I can understand why some "atheists" do not want a certain type of "bible verse" thing taught in the schools as there are FAULTY interpretations that have NO LOVE in them (they are cult-like behaviors).  They have not love for the neighbor as themselves or a love for God in a healthy kind of way.  Memorizing a "bible verse" or going over some passages of scripture does not create the "cult-effect."  What DOES create the cult-effect is reducing the person (parent, child or other loved one) down to nothing useful in the kingdom of God as a whole.

Furthermore, I have observed orphanages (fatherless households) in "Muslim" countries even today, who do have very little to "eat" so to speak.  They are given a bowl of rice and if lucky beans.  If GOD himself overcomes the actual persecution by the state, then they are given the nicer things like potato-chips.  I often encourage families or orphanages that are in persecution areas to seek "wild-edible-foods" when ever possible.  So this particular "American" family had no excuse for undernourishment of these children.  A few days of "fasting" for a special religious thing or health thing is not a bad thing in general, but day after day undernourishment is unacceptable for a family that names the name of "Christ" as the head of household.

The saddest thing about this situation is that 1. The family makes itself look like they are the "model" family for bible verse memorization.  2. The family makes it seem fasting is a good way to "control" the children by severely doing so, rather than as a way people can go through life. 3. The children who are given "transgender" treatments in hospitals are NOT considered abused because they are -in the world-, but the children who "fast" off and on or memorize some bible verses sometimes are considered abused by some of these type of terrible situations. 4. The "quiver full" movement is seen as if "it" is the abuser, when it is not the fact of having many children that created this situation, it is the parents own inability to admit they needed help in overcoming their personal pride (hence, the creation of various mockery websites which point fingers and scorn for no reason other than to hate the fact that a "down syndrome" child was given a chance at life). Our world is "backwards."

Personally, I did not study "sociology" in college that much, but these types of situations do concern me from time to time.  PLEASE do not assume that being more "liberal" about things will fix situations like this.  Actually, that makes situations like this worse (Sodom and Gomorrah had its sexual impurity issues).  (Pray for these children and pray that these parents REPENT of their actions in full.)

The -Kate Winslet- sinking effect....beware of "it."

Now I KNOW that there was a boat that was designed by a man that was trying to re-build the ARK .  It is an interesting "evangelism" tool.  But it is actually BROKEN lives that seek the truth and expose reality more than the people who are just trying to prove their own faith....that will go "their way"  NO ONE wants to have a "broken life" anymore than anyone else.  Believe me on that.

1 John 2:16 [Full Chapter]
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

But a wise person will actually study the wreckage of the Titanic.....and its after affects....the conditions of "pride" that surrounded it!

Yeup.  Now when the movie Titanic was developed a few scenes had something in them that were not appropriate for a young-child's eyes.  Yeup. "stumbling blocks"

Here is why they were "stumbling blocks."  Blocking up the mind with the idea that "beauty" is outward and builds up strength in woman.......keeps that "relationship boat" from sinking.

The "aftershock" of believing this?  Well watch positive or neutral ideas scenes.  The real stuff that means something first.

This stuff is what produced this monster movie in the first place.  It really had nothing to do with the "nakedness" aspect.

Anyhow.  The "no-greater-joy" ministry developed within its ministry this idea that a "beautiful" woman will -NEVER- have a man for a spouse with gasp -infidelity- problems.

UMMMMMM  did they fail in the statistics class or something.

Look at the result of various "beautiful" women who rack up the number of husbands.


I'm not going to say too much more.....but be wise about all of this.  Because the GUARD-"RAIL" VACCINE will not prevent deaths when multiple relationships are occuring.  FAKE religions (one's that don't tell you the absolute truth) will never cure the "disease" of sin (that stuff that kills EVE).  Kate obviously had interesting encounters with men in her life, yet she wanted desperately to stand up for "woman's body image."  The reality is that a person needs to focus INWARDLY to fix "woman problems" and JESUS (a man) knew this long ago..........

Mark 7:18 And he saith unto them, Are ye so without understanding also? Do ye not perceive, that whatsoever thing from without entereth into the man, it cannot defile him;
19 Because it entereth not into his heart, but into the belly, and goeth out into the draught, purging all meats?
20 And he said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man.
21 For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders,
22 Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness:
23 All these evil things come from within, and defile the man.

Essentially.......one must study the lives of people who actually WENT through the wreckage to get to the TRUTH.  Study www.infidelityhealing.com .

Furthermore, just because a woman is "beautiful" doesn't mean she has a crush on every guy she meets.  Just because a woman is "beautiful" doesn't mean that woman is a "whore wanna be".....maybe she wants to study other things in her life.

He is not using the "KJV" bible....but when one KNOWS the HEBREW language, then the deceptions start to "go away" so to speak.

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

-Do not support- vs. -support- types of marriage and conditions.....

Conditions and level of support or no support may vary based on knowledge of circumstance, knowledge of the bible, general knowledge and statistics and experiences and other things like repentance or life change, but in general this is an overview.  This list may be considered with discussion with children who need to know these things, those considering marriage or with others about your beliefs.....

Recall that Jesus said that people would do this (get into corrupt marriage and practice) in the end-times......like in the days of Noah and Lot.  "Simple concerning evil doesn’t mean someone does not know what evil is and that evil exists, but rather that they are unmixed with and harmless regarding the details of that evil."blog.titus2.com

Note: Marriage conditions may have a tendency to look like this.  Also note that Jesus' own ancestry did NOT come from perfect conditions!  Consider the "Ethiopian eunuch" if marriage conditions are not safe for a "born again" believer.

Furthermore, a person SHOULD support a person who is a victim in one of these marriages.  They were not protected enough, wise enough or did not repent.  A person should not "discriminate" based on marital status as a whole, like business or employment unless deemed necessary for protection for vulnerable people.

Even this basic video can help give some ideas (can work both ways.....woman check man behavior too):

Do NOT support:
(A bible based believer would not support these types of marriage or marriage conditions)

Consider reading this article to get an understanding about why LOVE does not involve FORCE: http://www.hcn.org/articles/tribal-affairs-why-native-american-women-still-have-the-highest-rates-of-rape-and-assault

-Terror or forced marriage
-Child under 15 marriage (the child cannot drive him or her self to a doctor so to speak).  Some marriages have "worked" at such a young age but they were always difficult.
-Gay or same-sex marriage (has many similar characteristics and behaviour to infidelity marriages).  Sexuality practices are "stolen" from what Adam and Eve were given to do.
-One-man-one-woman by force (other wives were murdered)
-incest marriages (5 generations difference, 7 generations or more difference is better)
-one or both spouse has heavy anger, alcohol, violence, crime, laziness/screen addictions, abortions etc.
-infidelity marriage (they are the ones who practiced the infidelity)
-pornography addictions in one or both spouses
-won't accept homebirth or nicu practices as needed or desired in agreement when dealing with maternity conditions
-anything opposed to God's law with Christ's redemption (like the way animals are treated, the way women conduct their life etc)
-heavy swinging or infidelity practice.  Possibility for the poly practice and not admit it. (woman at the well)
-strained extreme religious difference
-professionals seducing children online or off-line types of behavior
-misogyny, misandry, major womanizing or feminist behaviour
-financial abuse.  Marry for the spouse's money or talent with exceptions where this occurs.
-Disability marriage with no "maternity" conditions safety.
-Extreme IQ differences (IVY League married a person with 8th grade education would be OK as many 8th grade educated people can easily read adult level books and materials, but an IVY league educated person with a person who cannot and will not spell past the 5th grade level would not be OK)
-FGM marriage.  Female Genital Mutilation marriage.  Forget it.  Such people are not "religious" but are human-rights violators.
-a person is really supportive of "Fifty Shades of Gray" and other violation of God's laws types of entertainment.....
-something creepily "robotic"........humanoid nature of some sort.

Possibility TO support:

(A bible based believer would possibly support these types of marriage or marriage conditions)

-Disabled marriage with safety in maternity conditions.
-no marriage license payment (sometimes they may call this common-law marriage).  Essentially no "professional" and paid paper-document is used to identify the marriage.  Celebrations may still occur.
-woman decided to marry her rapist. (ie. a woman was violated at a college party.  That woman later meets this man at a workplace and he repented of his actions.)
-similar religious beliefs (except terror based religious beliefs).  It would be ok to support two religious beliefs that support the first -five books of the bible-, but use caution with "Christian" denominations that disagree with the first-five books of the bible- as truth.
-age gap (like over 10 year age difference) if youngest is above age 18.
-younger man and older woman (if older woman is not twice his age or in violation of the things above "do not support")
-self-control marriage (major no touch until wedding day)
-a couple doesn't want to go to prom but wants to get married instead.  Yes, they may be under age 18, but if they can -DRIVE- themselves to the doctor or to healthcare resources and to their job then they are mature enough to make their own "marriage" decisions too.
-"God Planned" marriage (Isaac and Rebekah type of thing) Man gets a vision and woman gets an "answer" by vision.
-Remarriage after repentance or freedom from above "do not support" conditions.
-actors and actresses getting married after pretending in a scene
-brotherly love and sisterly love along with love for spouse.
-oooops we messed-up marriage if not in "do not support" conditions.
-polygny if not in above "do not support" conditions.  Example: a man lost his first wife by separation and never really fully divorced.  That man married another wife without official paper-documentation.  Instead of infidelity conditions a man agrees with his first wife to take in another "wife" into the home and the first wife is ok with it.  (this condition MUST NOT have misogyny in it to work in a godly sort of way).
-Depression, anxiety etc in a spouse.  A person may still get married if they have those types of conditions and maintain a safe and healthy marriage.  Social behaviors may need to be more simplistic.
-professional who marries a client if timing is not in violation to getting work done in appropriate manner (ie. waitress married a regular visitor)
-Former spouse died.  For obvious reasons it is ok to marry again.
-A person once "saw" a -naked person- on a tv screen, magazine, historical record or medical diagnosis book or saw something like strippers in a movie.  Once or twice, here or there.  The person "repented" of watching that or never looked at it as a "true,""idolized" or "addicted to" that type of thing.  Some scenes may simply be "ignored" or passed over and the story would still make "sense."  (some extreme far-right believe in a ruined child if the child saw a "Disney" movie at a public school, or two donkeys doing something in the field...........hmph)
-a person was once violated, put into a concentration camp, falsely imprisoned or enslaved.  These people may get married but may have problems from time to time.  Depending on the severity or if there was extreme violation that needed counseling.
-Appropriate swinging handling (healthcare workers have to deal with people that have "attractions" from time to time) if the other spouse approves and knows about what is happening and honesty is revealed.  Read "emotional affair"

Disrespect problems among LGBT and their supporters....

the iceberg (cold and heartless folks).......is forcing others to "violate" their religion, while living in a realm of disrespect, in order to "succeed" in theirs. So some LGBT and their supporters requires others to "paint" a picture that is deemed inappropriate before a certain "faith" belief person's eyes...... hmmmmm. In God's laws so to speak it speaks about not seeing the "nakedness" of family members (and other things like putting stumbling block before children).....that is ALSO a violation of faith belief. If someone doesn't want to "participate" in this sort of movie (as it does have some inappropriate scenes for matters of reason), then the only "life-boat" is to suffer under the hands of wicked men/woman.
I have "red-hair" family members, ancestry etc......also King David had RED-HAIR as the bible indicates........ and I believe it.....he did have red-hair.
I know that messing around in relationship creates a "ship sinking" effect. (they created a vaccine to try to fix things...but that doesn't really work)...

furthermore people who were FORCED to violate their religion were put into Concentration camps.

Sometimes we have these twins in our lives.  People look-alike.  But people violate others for no reason....other than selfishness and pride.  This woman speaking perhaps has "red-hair"........

I don't like to talk about this kind of thing "very much" as many people can get into sexual impurity problems at any time.....but it is necessary to understand that RESPECT is a FOUNDATION principle.  An eternal principle.  A God's laws principle.

Modesty IS important by the way.  Try https://modli.co/  .  It will make you wiser in the long run.  If you need support to overcome sexual impurity PLEASE visit https://settingcaptivesfree.com/

I know that issues like what happens with #metoo issues.  Sometimes I have to "ask" the question are they purposefully dressing up and setting themselves in a "Bathsheba" position or "Potiphar's wife" position (dressing up in the strip-club way) or are they "forced" into these positions because a man of wealth is convincing the woman to do those things and she is succumbing to the lies.  There is wisdom in all of this and that.

Study the life of David and whom he encountered in his lifetime.  There was a woman who was married to a "Naboth" and she found something special in David.......so learn how to manage body, mind and spirit appropriately.

PLEASE keep FREEDOM in CREATIVE EXPRESSION!  RESPECT that which is in the heart and faith.


Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Should Christians engage in various "stunts" for "show"???

Pro_29:18  Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.

When a wicked man dieth, his expectation shall perish: and the hope of unjust men perisheth.
(Pro 11:7)

Riches profit not in the day of wrath: but righteousness delivereth from death.
(Pro 11:4)

When pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lowly is wisdom.
(Pro 11:2)


Various stunts are available to the viewing eye on www.youtube.com and sometimes they show up on "facebook."  Now we know that we really do not know the final hour we have on this earth.  However, some stunts are ASKING for trouble.

When I see a man jumping off of the top of the roof of a building and into a 4 ft. pool, I know any person under untrained condition WILL die in such a situation.  Children are "seeing" these things and then they think that is "normal" behaviour, and it is not.  YES people HAVE died in these types of situtations.

"Mat_4:7  Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God."

Yes, there are some stunts that people pull that "seem" abnormal but are a regular part of life for some folks in some parts of the world.  Like living off of the grid and walking a long distance to get water and "cable connections."  Or chosing to avoid use of the doctor for various things. And other risky things.

Some missionaries purposefully put themselves into dangerous territory with dangerous people.

Other people flee when they know that they will have to deal with a dangerous territory (or social group for that matter).  (Jesus said to be prepared for BOTH conditions.  Jesus WAS born into and LIVE in both conditions.).
Essentially, I believe a sincere Christian will not "entertain" the fleshy stuff so much.  He will not try to purposefully defy the forces of gravitation and make himself look as if he is "god" and create possible damage to his own life.

There is nothing wrong with an "adventure" as this is good and healthy (like camping, fishing, scuba diving and so forth).  There is nothing wrong with trying to walk on a dangerous cliff AND the proper cables and rails are available for safety.  There IS something wrong when people try to purposefully do things in opposition to safety standards.

Discussions that "cease" because of dissenting opinions (far-left or far-right)

When people lack discussion (perhaps that discussion ends by ending some sort of communication channel).  And they cater to a political opinion that is well....."too much"

Such things create HAVOC.  Misunderstandings.  Anger issues etc etc.

What happens in general is that the TITANIC of opinion eventually sinks, unless it was foundation on TRUTH.

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