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Friday, February 23, 2018

What "theolog-ician" think of brown-skin folk.... but the reality.....

Kinda funny.

Speaking of Puriim...... The book of Esther does happen to mention the nation of India.  and then the family members look and act like -Taylor Swift- for some odd reason.....after a certain number of years in America.....this happens...the blue-eye effect.

The song kinda goes along with these verses (Ephraim also is like a silly dove without heart: they call to Egypt, they go to Assyria. When they shall go, I will spread my net upon them; I will bring them down as the fowls of the heaven; I will chastise them, as their congregation hath heard. Woe unto them! for they have fled from me: destruction unto them! because they have transgressed against me: though I have redeemed them, yet they have spoken lies against me. And they have not cried unto me with their heart, when they howled upon their beds: they assemble themselves for corn and wine, and they rebel against me. Though I have bound and strengthened their arms, yet do they imagine mischief against me. They return, but not to the most High: they are like a deceitful bow: their princes shall fall by the sword for the rage of their tongue: this shall be their derision in the land of Egypt.
(Hos 7:11-16)

well most child-hoods in reality are like this.  This type of thing.....the children effect, really stumps the "theolog-ician."  Every time.  Every time.  (The bad-guy in this video could represent anything really.....even the Nazi German or the Haman or the Pharaoh or the.....well what ever it is....he's a bad guy.....is torturing from the inside....the heart..... a form of anti-semetism no matter how subtle)

because of the reality of our human condition I love this song:


This is interesting (dedicated memory to those who face the wicked effects of Genocide in this world.... or all the negative effects of feigned love):


I don't know what her "religion" happens to be..... but her attitude and things seems to be setting a positive future for her marriage and relationship (don't put family member photo on the internet unless ask their permission first.... ;) :


theologians that don't take thy word seriously (they don't want the word to be true for example)...... how to deal: https://ncfic.org/blog/posts/read2018_live_webinar_num._16_36_mk._7_10

Is the "headscarf" neutral? Does it enhance or oppress women's rights?

Watch that video.  Now note, the video states that "people" cannot make their own moral choice.  So the headscarf is NOT protecting women or men when it comes to moral choices, but the people WANT good moral choices.  The sad thing in these countries, is that the "headscarf" is enhancing or preventing these women from getting education that they desire.  (note: even though this video points to these "positives" in Islam that are better than Christianity -like pleasuring the spouse,- these are ALL false constructs because there is no -salvation- from people who sin/abusive in the marriage)

Isik knows that there is "Wicked heart" in men and women even if they wear a headscarf (she loves Old and New Testament holy bible).

Linda Sarsour has been caught promoting "false" women's rights and keeping things secret, yet she wears a headscarf.

In summary:

-The headscarf is not the issue, but it is symbolic-

Christians USED to wear headscarf.  Some still do and rightly understand its purpose.  I would encourage understanding of the "headscarf" from a -judeo-Christian- perspective....... because a person can understand the Hebrew nature of headscarf and modesty.  Remember Jesus was (err um still is) Jewish and celebrated -feast of Dedication- (Hanukkah) (John 10:22).

I don't think that headscarf style particularly matters, unless a particular faith group would like a certain color or style.

From my own "heart" I can say that a Christian women who is "locked" in a majority Muslim country and wears a headscarf, and believes in submission to Holy Bible (fruits would be brotherly love) and Husband, is closer to a clear-headed sort of Christian belief, than a woman in a western-culture who claims that they love "Jesus" but promotes evil sorts of women's rights (abortions on demand, hatred towards modesty, high power career for selfish reasons, false accusation #metoo etc).  From my understanding and experience the issue is in essence "submission" or eliminating the "false accuser."  (the liar, deceiver, the racist nonsense among men).

Accusation towards innocent men (like these boys) who are starting their life, and claiming they are causing #metoo issues, is wrong.  The innocent are innocent unless proven guilty.  Women who wear "headscarf,"  even Christian women, may or may not want to be a "tom boy" for a while (thats kinda stuff I did when I was in college...... sorry.... I'm not that angel you were hoping for).  Modesty can, in essence, prevent some issues with men.....but it is NOT always the case (because men have to deal with their own moral inadequacies and need for a Savior).  I went to a college class, without a headscarf, and all the 20+ young men, did not cause me any harm.

This is a part of Christian belief, no matter WHAT the secular (or other religions) culture says and does:
"1Co 11:9  Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. "..... in essence the "headscarf" is symbolic that women are created for the man.

Thursday, February 22, 2018

Whose voice matters when it comes to "school violence".....

Well, the bible will tell us very clearly whose voice matters when it comes to violence.  An entire 52 chapters of the bible are dedicated to the "voice" of a man, Jeremiah, who started his ministry in his youth.  In fact, his ministry started before he was even born!

If the voice of Jeremiah didn't matter in his youth, then do the voices of the youth matter today?  Consider the FACT that the youth NEED the gift and expression of "brotherly love" in their youth.

Some youth are "convinced" in their mind that God is not for them.  a. educators b. parents c. negative influences have convinced them that there is NO LOVE or COMPASSION for them in their youth.  Hence their voice is "dull" or "dimmed" in this world.  (Be careful some youth groups are there for entertainment instead of true love for God and man)

Does the voice of the youth matter when it comes to "school violence"?  Yes.  A little violence problem in the youth can affect the future for the child, including marriage and career choice.

It is difficult to "live" life on this earth as a whole, so it is important to consider the voice of the youth, even if that voice is "skewed" by certain agendas or misinterpretations of this and that.

All in all, we as humanity should HOPE the voice of the youth considers "repenting," "hearing from God" putting "hope in Jesus" in their youth, so that they don't have to cater to the worldly ways or even worse yet, to cater to violence.

This is not a post that is "praising" any political party as the youth do not vote.

Yes, there are strange cases where the youth convince themselves to do special "challenges" that are not good for their body (tide pod challenge).  The best way to prevent this problem is to make sure that the friends and family are not influencing them to do bad things to themselves in the first place.  If that means not using a regular brick and mortar school, or going on a long vacation away from influence of these family members, then that is what it means.

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Does microaggression towards "homophobia" chatter keep people away from honest discussion?

(some grammar issues with the article but bear with the arguments)

Think about these situations.  Perceived "prejudices" or "microaggressions" are a condition where a person or another person they know believes they are a victim of something like "homophobia" because someone else doesn't agree with their behavior and life-style, but really there is "wisdom" behind the mask.

For purpose of discussion, woman to woman relationship will be discussed.

For woman to woman relationships these things can create obvious "tensions" which when applied to the truth and to Christ's redemption, there is obvious "sisterly love" rather than a "sexuality" based love......calling a woman a "whore" or a "nobody" or a "homophobe" or even a "dike" when there is no evidence or it is microagressive form of harassment for many reasons.

Think about these situations:

-Female friend with cancer died.  She was a family friend and in many community events.  She knew and practiced the belief to be "born again."  She had facial deformities.  Many people cried over her death, even other friends who were her friend and were female.

-Female friend struggled in maternity conditions.  She needed healthcare and other assistance.  She is kind natured and secure in her faith.  She loves her husband and sons.  If something happened to her, other female friends would come to her assistance and take care of her and her sons.

-A female relative could have actual "islamophobia" or "anti-semetic" remarks or situations thrown at her.  She appears safe and independent without constant male supervision.  A person who is also a female relative feels like closer living and travel distance would keep her safe when concerns arise.

-Cousins play kissing games in their youth.  The parents really didn't have any knowledge or concern about these issues growing up.  That doesn't prove that the youth were "born that way."  Many tom-boys turn into women of dignity by the proper choices they make.  Being morally responsible is a condition of "self-control" of one's own passions.

-A female relative ended up with life-threatening STD.  Maybe that means the creator does want people, male and female, to be responsible in relationship.  Other female relatives sympathize with her but would like to see more responsible behavior in relationship conditions.

-A woman from one tribe wants to learn wisdom, cultural things about healing and dealing with life from another elderly woman.  There is a divine "love" and concern for each other's family life.

Now granted all of these situations are based on real situations and the way to "heal" these situations is not by claiming a sort of "homophobia" or dressing up in a "rated-x costume" every time a woman is concerned about another woman's "love" for another female in that woman's life (even young girls can feel these compassion and concerns as well).  Essentially it is NOT "homophobia" when another person (male or female) wants another woman to live life in warmth and comfort.  There is no "sexualy impure" behavior in wanting the best for someone else.  People who claim "homophobia" just because they want to embrace a sexually different lifestyle (rather than dealing with REAL life trials and comforts) are setting up some sort of "fear" of honest discussion as a whole.  Without the basic comforts being granted in female to female friendships and relationships a woman really can't "feel" as if she is a woman of "dignity."  A woman who wants to grant "herself" her own sexuality and pleasures and never see comfort in another woman for basic needs, is a woman of NO CLASS and has no DIGNITY.

How could a person who has "sisterly love" (that which grants comforts to those in need among actual females, even if they did make some poor choices with their body) also have issues with homophobia?  Personally, I don't see how that is the case.  This is because God's Laws and love are based on the principles of avoiding the condition of being "morally ruined," "scared" or "corrupted" by this or that situation.  Jesus (yeshua in Hebrew) grants us this strength.  Avoiding the discussion of God's laws simply because a person has "fears" of "religion" is a delusion at best and keeps people away from HONEST discussion about the human condition.

Essentially, to create more honest discussions, keep one's heart and mind centered on God's Word.  Do not leave out the essential elements (like the first five books of the bible) to grasp understanding of his love for us.

Essentially calling a person a "homophobe" because of xyz (like loving the bible in a conservative way) is a sort of microaggression and a way to isolate a person from honest discussion.  (that is the best way I can define that for ya.....because conservatively even the bible addresses kissing cousins.......and says it in a positive light.)

These are people being "social" in a pretty moderate way...... so I don't see how in the world (unless that person absolutely hates God's word and ways) someone would dislike the people being "social" in a kind and goofy way.  Look up in a computer search "Jesus" and "love" in the same line.  One will come across some pretty friendly "brotherly love" bible verses.......including the reality that Jesus loved two woman and a man.

Violent acts can and DO occur in same-sex relationships and conditions.  Do not assume that someone like a "sex trafficker" won't attack based on their male or female status.  Male or Female obscenity culture affects both male and female.

Deu_29:23  And that the whole land thereof is brimstone, and salt, and burning, that it is not sown, nor beareth, nor any grass groweth therein, like the overthrow of Sodom, and Gomorrah, Admah, and Zeboim, which the LORD overthrew in his anger, and in his wrath:

Isa_1:10  Hear the word of the LORD, ye rulers of Sodom; give ear unto the law of our God, ye people of Gomorrah. (the people who praise sexual impurity culture....obscenity.... do NOT want to listen to God's laws)

Isa_3:9  The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! for they have rewarded evil unto themselves. (they did not have brotherly and sisterly love, but embraced being sexually perverted and deceptive with their condition)

Jer_23:14  I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness: they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.

Eze_16:49  Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.  (there was no attention to brotherly and sisterly love!!!)


Further reading: False woman's rights advocates


In summary, THIS is what Christianity is trying to warn people, so that they can actually HAVE an abundant life before the worst happens:

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I can't be "anabaptist" but.....

I am alive today because of my "anabaptist" family members.  They raised me when my own mother either a. wouldn't b. enjoyed her job and work place c. couldn't because she really didn't know how the scripture changes hearts and minds.......(so she didn't have the sense to control emotions through scripture study)

My aunt raised me (like up until I was about 5....and my grandmother too) when my parents were not available.  She would listen to "titanic theme songs" from time to time......but that is besides the point when listening and doing are contrary to the evidence of what is going on in the heart.  Basically, the aunt and uncle didn't "act" like the people in the "titanic movie" but they always supported people despite their flaws and flukes.  They are still supportive to this day.

I encountered friends who are anabaptist and enjoy their company.  I mostly approve of their decision to study the bible as a whole

I can't be "anabaptist" because......

1. I read a statement from someone who grew up Mennonite that the "Jewish" people are the ones behind all the problems in this world.  Like genocides, corruptions in politics and so forth.  Um.  When someone says that, it sounds like an anti-semetic statement and that just doesn't "fly" in my world.  It doesn't work in the biblical world   It doesn't work to assume that all the evil in the world is ONLY caused by a certain nationality or heritage.  Nope.  No way.  No how.  Jesus was Jewish.  Paul the apostle of the New Testament was Jewish.  There are godly Jewish people today who are doing good in this world and sharing the gospel left and right.

I know enjoy going to a bible study with Jewish people and they know their heritage and so forth.

There may be people that are "Anabaptist" who do not even KNOW they are Jewish.  They may even have middle-eastern heritage and not even know it, despite the reality that their cousins were mostly white skin (or some other nationality)

In summary, the reason is because SOME in the Anabaptist community believe the notion that ALL the Jewish people are the bad-guys when it comes to Christianity issues and world-wide problems today.  This is simply a completely false and VERY wicked statement that Christ alone would never encourage his TRUE CHURCH to state.

(For me personally, I feel that pain if I hear it from someone due to family and friend connections.)

2. Traditions.  There are traditions that are in the culture of Anabaptist faith.  These are not bad traditions.  But when a person doesn't understand these traditions and then they are told they are wrong about their own personal decisions and traditions, it can be quite confusing.  There ARE good traditions, like brotherly and sisterly love.  But there are confusing traditions that are non-essential.  Some traditions may be brought in by way of emphasizing the need for more "roman Catholicism" practices or "other religious practices" within the Anabaptist community and they don't even see the dangerous ground in that.

3. Gossip.  This is an enemy of the Cross.  It is the reason behind Christ's death on the cross.  Judas "gossiped" about Jesus before Jesus was sent to the cross.  Gossip is an enemy in the small town and in the church.  This should not occur.  At all.

4. Silence in the face of evil.  When there is evil in the world, they may say "nothing."  They don't want to have to deal with "persecutions."  They don't want to have to take on the role of being an advocate (kinda like a lawyer) for this or that xyz person in need.  They will sit in a "nice" don't listen to pop-music state and not say a thing, while all the islamics are moving into the community and raping the people.  (not all middle eastern men do those things by the way, but evil does exist in some hearts and minds).  Or if there is a false-islamophobia condition, which brews far-right hatred of a certain nationality or race, out there, they will not say anything because the "brown skin" people are not that important (but yet the middle eastern men and women are written about all over the OLD TESTAMENT).  What about misogyny issues?  Like a woman in a wheelchair who may or may not be Anabaptist per say, does her voice matter?  Far-right patriarchy has problem in "ignoring" the least of these from time to time.

5. Lack of TRUTH in bible knowledge.  This is more of a minor issue, but it is still an issue.  This can affect any denomination.  The truth is that there are holidays in the Old Testament.  These holidays are still important.  These "months" and "days" are still important.  When was the month of Abib?  When is the "Feast of Tabernacles"?  These things are still important.  Messianic faith beliefs will bring this truth to our minds and hearts if people are willing to listen.  When did Jesus celebrate "Hanukkah" again?

So in summary, the conditions of tradition, keep people out of DEALING with the reality of this world that we live within.

This is not to say that ALL anabaptist groups or people practice their faith this way, or have these severe issues, but it is important to ensure that ones heart is HEARING from the HOLY SPIRIT in the right way.


Now these are the conditions where I approve of the Anabaptist faith and would encourage others to consider learning from their ways of practicing faith.  I would encourage anyone to incorporate these things into their lifestyle.

1. Open bible study.  They will desire to learn anything and everything that the bible says, particular the behavior and actions of the people in the bible and how they handled situations.  The book of proverbs is "for today."  The book of psalms is "for tomorrow."  The New Testament contains books that are definitely true and a diligent man who studies such conditions to "brew" the New Testament must SURELY know a thing or two about the goodness of God.

2. The faith is plain.  You don't have to be "judized" to understand it.  There CAN be a combination of the "plain people" and the Jewish faith (like that in the movie Fiddler on the Roof) if applied in unconditional love way.  Simple farmers are wonderful and needed.  Simple yard work is needed.  Simple smiles and kind gestures are what this world needs.  A listening ear, yes, that can go a long way.  Modest lifestyles and interactions are more important today than ever before with all of the "obscenity" culture that brews.

3. Non-resistance even in the face of evil.  They don't go to war.  Jesus said not to hate your enemy, so why not.  They LIVE for their enemy even when their enemy doesn't want to live himself (they are willing to go into refugee camps where a suicide bomber could brew up some trouble).  They will give their life to make sure a friend feels loved and secure.

4. The historical suffering.  This one is important.  Suffering in the face of evil for Christians occurred even before the reformation.  They recognized their need for JESUS, to the point of death.  Willingness to take themselves to the point of never bowing down to the "idols" of the day is important aspect of faith and is still true to this day.  BROTHERLY and SISTERLY love, within the means and mode of the scripture is what builds this faith.  Today, some still feel the effects of their grandparents, parents and others who suffered.

5. The faith is child-like.  There is no need for a fancy theology degree.  Only compassion and heart change are needed.  Worship of his divine presence is needed to clear out the clutter.  A thankful heart can go a long way.  Be ye thankful that the children in ones own home are NOT wicked and rebellious.  Child-like faith isn't fearful of diversity but KNOWS that he or she cannot corner every diverse opinion in the universe.

Powerful words NEED to be said.....

We are all.......designed to "fall" in this life.  We are in need of a redeemer.  It is not just for one type of person and not for another......words from the scripture keep us from "falling" and "uplift" our soul......

Sometimes people are so cornered by "finding fault" with people (even labeling them as have a phobia condition when it isn't really there) within a certain faith group that they MISS the reality that people are there.......and over there.....and under there.....and in this and that location.....climbing up a tree.....and hidden in that person of a "wheelchair"

Taking the time to "ignore" a person or even putting them in a concentration camp of some sort because you or someone else is just "too busy" making money for your career.....as a xyz (pastors and church group people included).....is actually proving that you didn't understand the gospel in the first place!

Pro_25:21  If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink:

Mat_10:42  And whosoever shall give to drink unto one of these little ones a cup of cold water only in the name of a disciple, verily I say unto you, he shall in no wise lose his reward.

When a person works in health care and is eliminating people because they didn't wear the "right color" of shoes when they explained what happened......then the "healthcare" industry doesn't truly care about the people within that facility (facility should actually want people to have access to good cold clean water and kind words).  They only care about their MONEY.....they do not care about the eternal rewards.

In summary, say good "beautiful" words to those who are seen as "less than human" or "don't look outwardly beautiful"...... the rewards are everlasting!

Take note Christians: Sometimes pop-singers are DOING the work that Christians are not doing with saying these nice words.....

Monday, February 19, 2018

Christian Liberty: Healthy Foods (4)

*Information in this article is not intended to replace proper wisdom as directed by people who are experienced in dealing with symptoms.  Any information given and used by the individual, if it was done in a way that did not work, may not be used against the writer. Christian Liberty : Christian Liberty Introduction

Some people live to eat.  Their day revolves around what will be the next meal.  Instead of assuming the simple foods and diets, they assume that all meals MUST include a full array of variety.  The reality is that our bellies don't need as much food, but our hearts need more love.  Specifically love from God's word and brotherly and sisterly love are of more value than the foods we have in our belly.

When people are stressed.  They eat.  When people are worried.  They eat.  When people are anxious.  They eat.  Instead of putting their eyes and ears to the word to heal their ailment, they find fulfillment in eating.  Such a habit is not good for the soul.  Winning souls for Jesus should be a higher priority than trying to "eat" ones way through life.  Their are MANY souls who hunger and thirst for righteousness, but WE must be the ones who give them opportunity to find such love.

Gluttony does not have to be the solution to the problems in the heart and emotion.  Instead focus on better habits in eating.

There are foods listed in the bible that are not "Kosher" and some foods that are "Kosher" so to speak.  It is OK to eat those foods sometimes, as Peter was given the "ok" to do so, but really, people can live on eating more Kosher styles of foods.  Less pork products and more humus, if you will, can actually improve one's internal organs and health condition.  It is not the ultimate cure for our hearts that ache for righteousness, but it is a good idea to consider eating cleaner meats to heal our physical bodies.

One thing to consider, is the condition of eating foods "offered to idols"!  Yes, in the New Testament Christians are specifically told not to eat these foods.  Such markets which sell these foods must be "boycotted."  Purchasing the foods that are offered to "idols" increases the likelihood that people will increase their "incomes" for these specific religions that are idolatrous in nature.  Maybe they are following a specific "Halal" meats.  Those meats and the markets which sell them must be avoided because purchase from those markets promotes the idolatry that they practice.  If a person is living in those countries which often has "Halal" meats and other types of "idolatry" meats in each and every store, consider only purchasing very basic items from those markets.  Do not purchase expensive items from those markets.  Consider raising or hunting for ones own meat from home if at all possible.

There is a possibility that someone will harass you or others about eating habits.  Do not assume they know what they are doing when they are harassing about eating or not eating certain foods, but assume they are not aware that the heavenly father knows their hearts and minds and he also knows yours.  The more you are faithful to God's word, the less tension you will feel when they are harassing you.

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