He doesn't need your help......

God's ways are so perfect, you cannot and should not attempt to alter his ways.  His ways are higher than our ways.

He created the eagle to fly in a perfect pattern and build a perfect nest in which to raise its young.  Do you not believe that he alone can also provide for you?

There are men in this world, and women too, who act as if they need "help" but they really do not need our help.

I have seen pictures of children starving in Africa.  I get reminded of how many deaths occurred in historical black-deaths and plagues.

There are times were God doesn't need your help.  There are times where people "pretend" to need your help, but are actually looking for other standards that are not God's standards for you or for themselves.

1. A man asks for your hand in marriage.  This man has been out on the town with other women and you didn't know about it.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

2. A group of girls want you to dress in nicer fancier and shorter skirts to make the football team in town happy.  He (they) don't need your help.  He (they) need Jesus.

3. A man who doesn't follow Jesus in another country and asked for you to get married.  Yes, he is a religious man, a confident man.  You met him online.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

4. A man says he is conservative Christian.  He never really liked history that much.  He avoided the subject of why Christmas and Easter are not mentioned in the bible and never really cared that much about how to treat  a woman or other cultures for that matter.  In fact, woman are always to submit, that's it, nothing else.  He knows hymns from great Christians of the past.  He has to do nothing in his heart.  He doesn't care that the Song of Moses and the Song of Lord is mentioned in Revelation.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

5. A man is asking for money.  You have never personally met him or the people he is helping.  He is supporting orphans and widows.  He is helping storm victims.  He is online.  He is part of a good organization.  Well at least it appears that way. (The red cross only built a few homes with millions of dollars donated).  If he is further than 30 miles away from your home, it is likely you won't know him.  He doesn't need your help.  Well at least a LOT of your help, unless you KNOW background information.  He needs to rely on Jesus and rely on local people, local natural resources for food and clothing.

6. He loves screens.  He loves computers.  He loves everything to do with cars.  He is obsessed with stuff of this world.  He hates visiting his grandmother in the hospital.  He hates visiting his long lost cousin with cancer.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

7. He was an -A- student in the school.  He passed out of college at the age of 16.  He never cared to investigate the origin of "evolution" and its theories.  (It was created by a rich not a humble man).  He loves to know that he can now buy a Ferrari because of his fancy degree and career.  He is looking forward to having one or more wives.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

8. His mother will not help him understand the important message of hard-work, getting things done for others and prayer.  His mother wants him to be a partier, a drinker and a lazy man like all the rest of them.  He doesn't need your help.  He needs Jesus.

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Here is a man that needs your help.

He was persecuted.

He was an outcast.

He was a student of the most high as well as a student at Harvard.

He wept over his lost sister living in sin.

He stood on the podium and stood for the right way to treat the tribes.

He allowed a sinfilled woman who left her lifestyle start up a small business.

He never picked up a gun to fight in a war, because he knew the war we face is in the spirit.

He was gossiped about in his local community and they hated his opinions in the local newspaper.

He was filled with flavor and didn't try to blend in with the sheep.  He knew who he was created to be.  What he was created to do.

He left his computer at the desk of a disabled woman who had difficulty speaking.

He didn't ask for money, when he became friends with the poor, fatherless, widows.  He just wanted to be their friend.

He lived in a state of survival.  Living off of the things in the wild.  He knows what berries in the forest are edible and which ones are not.  He is willing to point this out to EvE.

Now if you KNOW the scripture, and know it well, you will become like this man whom you should HELP!!!

For further advice, read the following:
http://raggedycottagegarden.blogspot.com/2017/08/before-betrothal-or-courtship.html