Considering that Charlie is over the age of 18......the conversations between adults can get a little ..... saucy sometimes. Online and offline. A person will find this quite often on celebrity channels. If women and men talk "saucy" like this in their marriage.....their marriage is likely to be a BENEFIT to their life and the lives of others.
It is NOT a bad thing to have "attractions"....... Even married people can be attracted to others they are not married to. I believe our creator WANTS us to see QUALITY in other people.
But if it is done "secretly" behind a person's back (like a committed relationship).....someone, somewhere IS going to get hurt. A couple that works off of each other will TRUST each other.
Relationships with family or "non-saucy" friends will be your best bet on determining the -level- of appropriate vs. inappropriate behavior (where you or someone else could get hurt). The more you TRUST that reality, the better success. Modest behaviour and actions (online and offline) are a good safety measure in general. But if a person is STRICTLY modest, that can come off as "unloving" and not wanting ANY social benefits. In fact, it can be anti-Christ or anti-biblical! Yes, it is the SILENT treatment that proves a man doesn't know to whom he is encountering and dealing with (various "good" socially appropriate priests and pastors.....found the Jews in Nazi Germany and came after them to send them to concentration camps! So it was the "politically correct" dudes who were the BAD GUYS!!!!!) The bible says let brotherly love continue!.......
Yes, there are online-predators. Be aware of those types. OFTEN times they DO NOT want others to know about your "connections." Yes, there are cases of Gary Weinstein. Any man that says to "keep quiet" about something is a sign of a man with questionable character. Also, getting or receiving too much "rated-X" content is a bad choice! Especially if you have never met this person face to face.....even if they only live 1 hour away~!~ Just plain risky and immoral as a whole!
Essentially, "attractions" are not bad, and do not mean that a person is a predator. Kinda like you are the "celebrity" and someone admires something about you. They are not out to get you, unless you WANT to be vulnerable to something. Just be wise and know what is too much information online and what is being hypocritical to reality of the need for more brotherly and sisterly love.
***DO NOT talk to children under the age of 18 in a "saucy way" or allow others under 18 to talk to you that way~!~~!!!~~~*** If they are "pretending" to be 18 or you are unsure.....simply do NOT allow it to occur! You could get in trouble. NEVER ever. Same goes for people in the situation of being a "vulnerable adult." A person doesn't know if someone online is in an institutional setting for a reason. The computer doesn't show you EVERYTHING about a person's lifestyle and conditions.
Yes, 18 and under may create some pretty funny songs from time to time! Just laugh and move on. They do grow up eventually......they have to face the same trials we all have had to go through as far as relationships are concerned. A person always HOPES that the children learn to approve of cleaner and careful behavior in relationship(s). A bible helps with that even today.....online and offline.
A person can "sit-down" and consider what is appropriate and inappropriate conversations:
Humour or "flirty talk" or "political correct/non-political" or any other manner of conversation.....for YOUR protection and for the protection AND encouragement of others.... Note: NOT saying something, in a silent treatment way, can also be a BAD SIGN (unless there is distraction and interference)......if you have already established that you are willing to converse with someone for a while.****
People LOVE to false accuse others ......for no reason. Don't bear grudges from your past....and don't assume you can't be LOVED if you did make supposed "mistakes"....
This topic is important because.....to be a "good" homemaker......it is only GOOD to be LOVING....else it is just being a "homemaker" with bitterness brewing left and right. A woman who comes and goes and is never married, yet stays clear of bad communication, is BETTER than being a MARRIED woman who holds such bitterness in the heart. (Pro_30:23 For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress.). So keep the kindness-talk brewing!
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