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Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Does microaggression towards "homophobia" chatter keep people away from honest discussion?


(some grammar issues with the article but bear with the arguments)

***************Gen_6:8  But Noah found grace in the eyes of the LORD.****************

Think about these situations.  Perceived "prejudices" or "microaggressions" are a condition where a person or another person they know believes they are a victim of something like "homophobia" because someone else doesn't agree with their behavior and life-style, but really there is "wisdom" behind the mask.

For purpose of discussion, woman to woman relationship will be discussed.

For woman to woman relationships these things can create obvious "tensions" which when applied to the truth and to Christ's redemption, there is obvious "sisterly love" rather than a "sexuality" based love......calling a woman a "whore" or a "nobody" or a "homophobe" or even a "dike" when there is no evidence or it is microagressive form of harassment for many reasons.

Think about these situations:

-Female friend with cancer died.  She was a family friend and in many community events.  She knew and practiced the belief to be "born again."  She had facial deformities.  Many people cried over her death, even other friends who were her friend and were female.

-Female friend struggled in maternity conditions.  She needed healthcare and other assistance.  She is kind natured and secure in her faith.  She loves her husband and sons.  If something happened to her, other female friends would come to her assistance and take care of her and her sons.

-A female relative could have actual "islamophobia" or "anti-semetic" remarks or situations thrown at her.  She appears safe and independent without constant male supervision.  A person who is also a female relative feels like closer living and travel distance would keep her safe when concerns arise.

-Cousins play kissing games in their youth.  The parents really didn't have any knowledge or concern about these issues growing up.  That doesn't prove that the youth were "born that way."  Many tom-boys turn into women of dignity by the proper choices they make.  Being morally responsible is a condition of "self-control" of one's own passions.

-A female relative ended up with life-threatening STD.  Maybe that means the creator does want people, male and female, to be responsible in relationship.  Other female relatives sympathize with her but would like to see more responsible behavior in relationship conditions.

-A woman from one tribe wants to learn wisdom, cultural things about healing and dealing with life from another elderly woman.  There is a divine "love" and concern for each other's family life.

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Now granted all of these situations are based on real situations and the way to "heal" these situations is not by claiming a sort of "homophobia" or dressing up in a "rated-x costume" every time a woman is concerned about another woman's "love" for another female in that woman's life (even young girls can feel these compassion and concerns as well).  Essentially it is NOT "homophobia" when another person (male or female) wants another woman to live life in warmth and comfort.  There is no "sexualy impure" behavior in wanting the best for someone else.  People who claim "homophobia" just because they want to embrace a sexually different lifestyle (rather than dealing with REAL life trials and comforts) are setting up some sort of "fear" of honest discussion as a whole.  Without the basic comforts being granted in female to female friendships and relationships a woman really can't "feel" as if she is a woman of "dignity."  A woman who wants to grant "herself" her own sexuality and pleasures and never see comfort in another woman for basic needs, is a woman of NO CLASS and has no DIGNITY.

How could a person who has "sisterly love" (that which grants comforts to those in need among actual females, even if they did make some poor choices with their body) also have issues with homophobia?  Personally, I don't see how that is the case.  This is because God's Laws and love are based on the principles of avoiding the condition of being "morally ruined," "scared" or "corrupted" by this or that situation.  Jesus (yeshua in Hebrew) grants us this strength.  Avoiding the discussion of God's laws simply because a person has "fears" of "religion" is a delusion at best and keeps people away from HONEST discussion about the human condition.

****calling someone something that is not true......is a form of harassment......in one way or another.  Even if it is calling someone a "homophobic"****



Essentially, to create more honest discussions, keep one's heart and mind centered on God's Word.  Do not leave out the essential elements (like the first five books of the bible) to grasp understanding of his love for us.

Essentially calling a person a "homophobe" because of xyz (like loving the bible in a conservative way) is a sort of microaggression and a way to isolate a person from honest discussion.  (that is the best way I can define that for ya.....because conservatively even the bible addresses kissing cousins.......and says it in a positive light.)

These are people being "social" in a pretty moderate way...... so I don't see how in the world (unless that person absolutely hates God's word and ways) someone would dislike the people being "social" in a kind and goofy way.  Look up in a computer search "Jesus" and "love" in the same line.  One will come across some pretty friendly "brotherly love" bible verses.......including the reality that Jesus loved two woman and a man.





Violent acts can and DO occur in same-sex relationships and conditions.  Do not assume that someone like a "sex trafficker" won't attack based on their male or female status.  Male or Female obscenity culture affects both male and female.


Deu_29:23  And that the whole land thereof is brimstone, and salt, and burning, that it is not sown, nor beareth, nor any grass groweth therein, like the overthrow of Sodom, and Gomorrah, Admah, and Zeboim, which the LORD overthrew in his anger, and in his wrath:

Isa_1:10  Hear the word of the LORD, ye rulers of Sodom; give ear unto the law of our God, ye people of Gomorrah. (the people who praise sexual impurity culture....obscenity.... do NOT want to listen to God's laws)

Isa_3:9  The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! for they have rewarded evil unto themselves. (they did not have brotherly and sisterly love, but embraced being sexually perverted and deceptive with their condition)

Jer_23:14  I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness: they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.

Eze_16:49  Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.  (there was no attention to brotherly and sisterly love!!!)
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For the humor of it all....


America embraces brotherly love..........brothers and things of that sort.....getting along.....with words of encouragement..... but if someone doesn't cater to "sexual impurity" somehow that makes a person........(what Ben says.....)





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Further reading: False woman's rights advocates


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In summary, THIS is what Christianity is trying to warn people, so that they can actually HAVE an abundant life before the worst happens:

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