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Monday, November 6, 2017

Ideas for replacement of "Planned Parenthood" and other abortion-based woman services.

There are some woman who do not need and do not want abortions.  Period.  It is against faith.  It is against tribal wisdom and other things.  However, pregnancies do have problems!  Some women may be Christian and some woman may NOT be Christian who wish to avoid the talk and generated belief that abortion "free's woman" to do "what she wants."

An option to replace such agencies like -planned parenthood- needs to be in place.  There are emergency pregnancy centers, but there should be emergency pregnancy problems center as well, for the poor woman.  For obvious reasons.  Many women never entered the door of "planned parenthood" but YET women have had issues with problematic pregnancies that could have taken the life of a mother with other children at home to care for.  As a result, these women have to turn to very expensive resources to overcome this burden in life.  The unfortunate thing is that "planned parenthood" believes in -ABORTIONS-.......it does NOT believe in -SAVING LIFE.-

The solution to the problem?

Offer everything that SAVES the life of the mother......for FREE!  Yes, the life of the unborn and young child matters too!  So offer various services for that young child as well!

How?

Simple.

Be wise!  Talk to community.  Talk to churches.  Get them involved and encouraged to be pro-active in being "pro-life."  Encourage women to "choose life" for others as well as within church groups.  Preserve life is the JOY of life.

What kinds of things would be offered?  What kinds of services?  Where could the services be offered?

The services would be called something like -Maternity and Young Child Wellness Center- instead of "Planned Parenthood".....as it has NOTHING to do with planning things man's way....it has to do with God's plans in a woman's life.....to set her FREE to do what is RIGHT and to stand for RIGHTEOUSNESS.

The bible stories that influence such a "Center" would be "Brother's Keeper" stories like: RACHEL, DINAH, TAMAR, GOMER (she needed to correct patterns of behavior in life), ELI's IN-LAW and so forth.  Women who struggled with personal sin issues and with difficult pregnancy.

-Pitocin and IV.  (or connections to a midwife who is certified which can offer pitocin.  She should be on-call or available at the center.)
-Ultrasound machine (may be expensive to provide for start-up or difficult to move if the services are not provided in a special permanent rented space or set up in church building)
-Doppler or Fetoscope to give away to expectant woman
-STD testing (yes, this should be offered even in a church that provides services that are biblical conservative because infidelity, rapes and other things happen at any time)
-Women have the POWER to say "no" to cervical checks and other unwanted maternity services at this particular center.
-Relationship strength books (encourage the woman to stay with the man who helped bring baby to the world).....some examples could be "Before you Meet Prince Charming," "Created To Be His Helpmeet" www.aboverubies.org resources and so forth.
-Baby supplies (anything like they have at crisis pregnancy centers would be good)
-Prayer and support (if they would like to receive this care, prayer for healing or concern that a pregnancy will not make it an abortion may occur..... miracles have happened!)
-Baby Drop-Off (a simple extra large mailbox or clothes basket could save a life)
-Mini orphanage or foster care.  A grandmother at a church could have a space in her home!
-Child training under 3 years old services.  Some parents can become neglectful or wander around thinking that they can "handle" difficult young babies which do not listen to parents, but others actually need to train the parents....how to parent in a godly way (yes, some spanking types of correction may be used to help child listen: possible resources http://www.raisinggodlytomatoes.com/, "To train up a child" -> consider proper methods in safety helps avoid mistakes, "Child Guidance" by Ellen White, Parent Effectiveness Training - Thomas Gordon, www.aboverubies.org resources)
-Yell and Tell books (books which teach children to stay away from predatory behaviour in adults)
-Modest Clothing (teach Hosea wife how to overcome issues with men who make living out of adultery and pornography.  Teach her how to escape that type of lifestyle.  Lifestyles like that lead to STD problems, single parenting problems etc.)
-Bibles.  Bible reading guide.  Denomination based or just general information.
-Hymn books.  Teach woman that singing alone could keep mother and child occupied for hours.
-Herbal care for c-section or emergency issues.
-Vaccine Free well-child check.  Some women do not want to see doctors because the doctors push things that are not nature based health.
-Sewing Kit and How to Sew Book.  Some women have lost touch with sewing which could save a poor woman a lot of money if she knows what to sew for her children and how to sew.  Even hand sewing could go quite far!
-Healthy lifestyles book.  Healthy habits and freedom from bondage.....
-Basic midwifery books.  Healthy pregnancy books. Homebirth books and so forth.

Books and some supplies may be borrowed, purchased for a lower price or taken for free.

*Note: for the woman who has a pregnancy that may not survive past 8 days on neonatal ICU care, consider wisely how to handle such care for that woman.  She should have the option of choosing DNR for the unborn child if she so chooses to allow such condition RESPECTFULLY in her own home and privacy.  Perhaps offer a "legal service" option that protects such a woman (from major financial burden) in case she wishes to complete such a pregnancy in her own home.  Some major "pro-life" people do not believe that some children are temporarily here for a visit and leave before one week old.....which this does happen......and they do not see the financial burden this places on poor families.

So in essence such a "center" requires VERY little money!  The only thing that would be expensive to help women in difficult pregnancy is the "pitocin"!  Seriously!  In some cases NATURAL REMEDIES COULD prevent even more burden.  For such things like that, fund-raisers and so forth could be put in place to actually HELP women who need it!  Rather than forcing women who are poor to "terminate" pregnancies for little to no reason.....other than mere hatred of the gospel by far-left idealists.  Furthermore, perhaps "pregnancy problems" clinic could be a "temporary" or "volunteers" clinic that is branched into various movable locations (like libraries, community centers, church basements etc) near an actual "crisis pregnancy center."  The goal is simply to help poor families overcome financial burden with problematic pregnancies that did not go as expected.  Such a center could also only focus on helping women who actually have poverty issues, lack of insurance, perhaps it could only focus on helping women who are past 12 weeks of pregnancy or even 20 weeks of pregnancy (more difficult to help and deal with complications past 12-20 weeks).

So talk with your CHURCH or fellowship group, pass the word around to godly healthcare workers for volunteer time and see if they would be willing to set up a special service like this so that women do not have to go to expensive resources or rely upon ungodly men.


For supply needs, simply go to a "dollar tree" "used supplies resources" and other places.  Get maternity supply from https://www.1cascade.com/ or other such locations.  Costs are VERY low for a good start up.  Such a center would be like a "midwife clinic" but with the emphasis that it is a "choose life" type of clinic.  The clinic would also be "pro-woman" and supportive of things that are natural for mother and child.  No enticement to support things that are unnatural (vaccines, birthcontrol pills etc) for the mother or the child.


-Margret Sanger (and other similar woman who support the organization) was a. racist.  b. Didn't really go through actual pregnancy problems herself c. wasn't really that poor so on and so forth.  Just because a fancy woman says she is "Sad" about her mother dying, does NOT mean that the woman actually cares for her FRIENDS that suffer.

-As far as the services that stop pregnancy are concerned.....well.....the "wicked" woman will find out how to terminate anything and everything under the sun.....via......overdosing on something.......so as a result, the best solution is simply to offer "pitocin" in case something didn't go right for her. To save the life of the woman.....whom forgot her creator......and redeemer.  Support for women who accidentally or were forced to terminate pregnancies and who don't know that they are doing isn't quite right in the eyes her creator should be in place.


As a Christian, ideas and truths about conception and pregnancy are very important.  Even the scripture declares it!  Mary the mother of Jesus met with Elizabeth and the babe LEAPED in the womb!

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Information to provide to interested people and volunteers (sample)

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Maternity and Young Children's Health Clinic

-Services for women who are 20 weeks or more along in pregnancy and with complications
-Assistance for very severe pregnancy complications in those 8-20 weeks along.  Major surgery needed for mother.
-Advice and choices for better and safer natural maternity care at any stage in pregnancy.  Women who do not get regular pre-natal care may use this resource in a less-professional and more independent way.
-No cervical checks for women who would not like them.  Fetal-heart beat is all that is required.
-Natural Health Care advice and well-child checks for young children.
-Child training for children under age 3 years old (pick up toys, listen to the word "no," hugs and kisses, safety training, beginning Montesorri, disability assistance)
-ICU neo-natal care or homebirth care for child with life off to a difficult start.  Using hospice or other services as needed.
-Difficult relationship and marriage advice and counsel
-Sibling rivalry issues.  Large number of children or not.
-Household care and safety
-Need for community support, love and encouragement

*This is a *FREE* maternity health resource.  Financial assistance comes from donations and volunteers.
*Free care, certificates and financial assistance available

*Call ahead at 123-456-7890 for an appointment or stop by Tu and Thu week of full moon and week of new moon 2-3 pm (except during xyz holidays).  Location: ATown-first Tu, BTown-first Thu, CTown-second Tu, DTown-second Thu.  Certified professional volunteers are available (xyz dates).

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Questions before care is given:

----Do you have a primary care doctor?  Have you visited this doctor within the past year?  5 years? 10 years?
----Do you have any major health issues?  Do you have any unhealthy addictions?
----Do you have a pregnancy complication? When is the due date?
----Do you need financial assistance? Explain.
----From the information above, what area would like assistance?  What age(s) are your children?
----Do you speak English? Do you have a translator?

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Volunteers do not need a "health certificate/degree/licenses" they only need experience and same goals in mind.  It is simple to use a fetoscope, blood pressure cuff, check pulse and temperature on any person who would like care from this volunteer resource (no cervical check is needed to ensure support is available).  If a volunteer HAS a health certificate/degree/license and so forth, that is good too, so long as the healthcare worker volunteer supports the goals of the services.

This is because the goals are not so much to provide actual care for the mother in need, unless a certified person can provide such things as IV's, pitocin and so forth, but to ensure that SUPPORT is available.

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Goals:
-Assist with maternity health to improve conditions for women
-Help young family gain confidence in raising young children in Godly way
-Assist those with pregnancy complications
-Overcome financial burdens (less need for many go-fund-me pages) due to complicated pregnancy, Neo-natal ICU care, young children's care and nurture.

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*****The message may not be coming through to some women and young families.  The message is that God cares for women in their maternity stages of life and God cares for children *****

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The wise woman builds her home, the wiser woman builds her community

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Ways to FUND such a local resource:

*Shoe Drive and so forth
*Post-Cards and Gift Wrap (Home-made) and so forth
*Home-Made Towels, Quilts, Dish Rags, Curtains and so forth
*Books, Screen Free Toys, Electronic free toys

*Potato Soup and Sandwiches with veggies, coffee, milk and tea and pies for extra cost for desert


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Healthy Life Bonus (extra support)

Qualifications:
** Signature from a faith group that you practice regular bible study and prayer.  3+ years
** No addictions www.settingcaptivesfree.com
** Never use big pharmaceuticals that are not needed
** Eliminate unnecessary social behaviour (outline topics from psalms and proverbs for example).
** A desire to be a "keeper at home" and learn frugal tactics (wild-edible food gathering for example) with only small odd-jobs as needed to help family life function more effectively.

5$ or cost of 2 loaves of bread per month, per pregnancy.  = 9 months (pregnancy), first year (0), second year (1), third year (2).

----(amount allowed from bonus is amount total that the person will pay as well as any extra unused financial support)----

Use the money for any of the following:
--medical bills and expense
--useful household items
--moving expenses (recommend outdoor space and country space)
--NICU travel and car expense
--2 week food recovery
--education materials
--one pair of shoes and boots age 1 and 2
--one car seat

Rules:
--: Show receipt
--: Keep regular payment (be present at payment recording).  It is ok to delay as needed....just pay more next time.
--: Continue payment even after a person uses up the 225.00$ or available amount
--: Show desired item if it has not been paid for.

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This resource is available and should be available to people of any faith and nationality, but the goals would be to inform how to live a godly lifestyle.

Petition Link:

Petition: https://www.ipetitions.com/petition/interested-in-creating-a-free-maternity-and-young/?i=3&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=share


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Disturbing images show why it is necessary to ONLY help pregnancies that are past 20 weeks with difficulty.  Yes there are some cases before 20 weeks, but it is more unlikely to need any financial help and miscarriage happens naturally.: https://www.liveaction.org/news/10-images-change-mind-abortion/

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