Sunday, June 24, 2012
CHARACTER: Fascinating women bless your husband
(there may be some technical errors on this posting as my blogger/internet isn't working too well)
A while back I started writing a proverbs 31 series . I would like to begin writing that series again. I have acquired more wisdom and experience since that time and I would like to share that information with you once again.
Today's theme is CHARACTER.
-Does him good and not evil all the days of her life
-strength and honour are her clothing
-opens her mouth with wisdom
-in her mouth is the law of kindness
-her children and husband rise up and call her blessed
-her own works praise her in the gates.
-she feareth the LORD
What is beauty through the eyes of your husband? How can you become a better woman? Is there a way to save a failing marriage? Is there a way to make a good marriage better? Are our days becoming so EVIL and overcome by feminism that no woman can raise a home and family under the protection of a man?
It IS possible to live a life that the little girl inside you always wanted! You can find information from the book fascinating womanhood by Helen Andelin at http://www.fascinatingwomanhood.net/. Although the book was written in the 1960's, the condition of man and the "natural" reactions men have towards women have not changed since that time nor will they EVER change according to God's word. God didn't suddenly put eyes on the back of people's heads or grow three legs instead of two. Of course when grounded with biblical truth, it is easy to see how to build the best in your husband, simply by trusting in his protection and provision. An additional book in .pdf format and story format is found here.
There are others who thoroughly enjoy the book and have even written blogs surrounding the theme of the book. http://thefascinatingwoman.blogspot.com/
Some of the secrets you will find include the following:
Accept him as he is.
Look to his good side.
Don’t try to change him.
Forgive him for past hurts.
Allow him his freedom.
Compile a list of his masculine virtues.
Humbly apologise to him for your past mistakes.
Admire his masculine qualities.
Never wound his sensitive pride.
A man’s greatest need is to be admired for his masculine qualities.
His deepest misery is to be belittled by a woman.
Make him Number One in your life.
Comfort him tenderly when he is tired or discouraged.
Appreciate the heavy responsibility a man carries.
Use the great power of sympathy.
Comfort him lovingly when he comes home weary.
Do not raise problems until after he has eaten
Your husband’s God-given role is to lead you and provide for you. Allow him to do it.
Your role is to be his companion, a mother and a homemaker.
Let him know your views, but support his final decision 100%.
Let him worry about the finances.
Men deeply admire inner serenity
and goodness in their wives.
Your husband wants you to be a better person than himself.
Goodness and inner serenity are required in a woman for a man to love her deeply.
Inner serenity develops in a woman when she becomes free of pride and self-righteousness, always does and says the right thing, is free of guilt, and has a forgiving heart.
I wish you the best and many blessings in your wonderful marriage.