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Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Patriarchy vs. Dangerous grooming gangs......racism issues??


Ok, I live near a "multi-culture" town.  From what I know there have been some conditions off and on where women "out side" of the particular culture or heritage were affected by "rape" or other things.  I don't know about "incest" inside of the camps, but there have been some cases like that in some circles too.

When many different cultures "come together" in one area, the -young girls- are going to be the number one target of evil, no sense of self-control type of men.  It happened against "indigenous native american girls."  It happened against "little white girls" who were brought up around native american tribes.  It happened among the "slave girls" of the south.  Lets put it this way.  It happened.

So how do we know what type of "men" will have the highest chance of turning into evil "rape gang" men.  To me these are the HIGHEST form of evil against humanity, because they do not make a conscious effort to control themselves and respect the good of humanity.  Things like this even happened in concentration camps where the women were trapped by concentration camps already.

I don't have a "secret formula" to help identify these types of men when they showed up like in the case where Harvey Weinstein was caught in lascivious acts.  But I DO know the one who redeems man from his own sin of LUST.  The more a man knows the "word" the less likely that man will commit the acts.  Furthermore, the more a man has KNOWLEDGE about this criminal behavior and "different ways people express their sexuality"  even among different cultures, the less likely a sort of abuse will brew.

The HIGHEST chance types of men to act this way are those who DON'T consider scripture as a resource to find "self-control."  This has even happened in various "church groups" or "social church functions" that don't take the bible seriously.  Commonly the "man" doesn't meditate on biblical things in some way or another.  The second HIGHEST chance types of men to act this way are the men that are not informed about what is right and wrong from a "professional" or "educational" point of view.  These men act out on their impulse with no "professional conduct" types of standard.

So, consider wisely and teach daughters to "be careful" around certain men.  Don't read literature that teaches girls to just "trust a boyfriend" or other types of things.  

Try these resources to help protect children: Resources for girls, Tips on giving The Talk

All in all, a man of "middle eastern" decent NEVER indicates the Character of the man.  To believe so is a form of racism.  That is a HERITAGE.  NOT an upbringing or set of beliefs that leads to right behavior.  Jesus was Middle Eastern.  Yes, there were corrupt people in Israel in Jesus' day.  He said so!  But he knew how to identify men that had lust and hypocrisy in their heart, so consider HIS method of removing the "lust" problems from within the heart.  

All in all, yes, "teen boys" will chit chat about this and that in regards to what they "think about" from time to time.  That does NOT mean they will turn to the -bad stuff.-  It is a part of development of developing "attraction."  To label someone as doing something that they didn't do (a sort of opposition to Patriarchy) is a form of "false accusation" or "defamation of Character" of MAN.  In some cases, it could turn as bad as racism problems.  So consider WISELY what cases are REAL DANGEROUS abuse, and what cases are the general DEVELOPMENT of man......or perhaps a different culture issues.

Patriarchy is NOT the bad-guy and it DOES NOT cause these "Grooming gangs" that is a misconception about the possibility of REDEMPTION of men from their sin.  In fact, patriarchy if it is based on REDEMPTION, restores and preserves humanity FROM these VERY things that create evil in the minds and hearts of the future generations!

YES, there are some PATRIARCHY conditions that lead to these things, but consider if that man believes in REDEMPTION and FOLLOWS the REDEEMER.




Furthermore.....when talking with differing people from "middle east"..... some don't really know that they have "Jewish heritage".... the woman speaking in this video .....found out later in life that she has Askinazi Jewish heritage....  so outward appearances are different than inward (holiday or religious appearances).....  If this woman speaking in this video or her daughters would be affected by a grooming gang would definitely WANT some sort of justice.



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