Sometimes its an emotional arrangement.... and sometimes if you look at the facts

 the four thigh bones for a marriage.

Unless there is ACTUALLY a conjoined twin thing going on....  

AND unless there is some sort of BACK BONE that supports this marriage or it wouldn't be there..... there would be "no shin bone" basically.  You NEEEED two back bones for a set of 4 "shin bones" to exist in a marriage.

*if a man says he can have at most and at least 4 "thigh bones" in the household for a marriage.  Meaning 4 trails that went somewhere but won't admit that there should be equal number of "shin bones" or less for a marriage; he is WRONG about "a marriage" if he says he can have more "shin bones" than thighbones in a proper marriage arrangement.

*If the LARGEST THIGHBONE is broken and it is in the tallest in the house, does that mean that the TALLEST/or larger framed can now go anywhich way he wants and not feel like he is slowed down in the house?

*so who is TYPICALLY the "weaker thighbone" in the household?

*if a man says gee I want to purposefully GIVE SEPTIC SHOCK and LIVER-or-DIE damage to the one with the "weaker thighbone," is that a good marriage plan, when the one with the LARGEST THIGHBONE wants to do THAT to the "weaker thighbone," when his OWN is broken?

*so if the "weakest shin bone" in a marriage is given septic by stepping on a serpent in the winds and wilderness does it sound like a GOOD marriage to DESTROY all "weaker shin bones" in society at large?  aka thy NEIGHBOR with "Weaker shin bones"

Wast NOT there a few who did this and that in HIS-DISTROY lessons here and there?  Passover and the anishin??

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and the 80+ year old Moses is sitting there SMILING.   Jeru-"s"elah-m